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Friday, May 21, 2010

Ready again?

I was going through old pictures to get an idea of how big I will be at Colin's wedding in November. I will be about 6 weeks out from my due date. Poor Cayla is trying to find a dress that a fully prego bridesmaid can wear. I found this picture from 38.5 weeks (I went almost a month longer) and decided I am not sure if I am ready for my body to do this again. I know I do not have a choice, there is delightful little baby growing inside of me and I too will be growing very soon. I am actually already showing a little, they say you pop quicker with the second. Well I have popped enough that a women today at JCrew asked me when my second child was due. I had a guy in Florida (when I was literally 4 weeks prego) ask me when I was due as well. People have some guts, I have a little belly but it could be leftovers from child #1 that I didn't get off, wouldn't that make them feel bad.

Some women LOVE being pregnant, I do not fall in that category. I am so thankful for the gift at the end, but I prefer my body without carrying a baby around, and all the nausea, heartburn, hormonal roller-coaster, sleepless nights, constipation, skin expanding, ligaments pulling, weird hair growing, clothes don't ever look right time of my life. Yes I am saying publicly that I will do this one more time to have 3 (Lord willing) and then I am done. Put a plug in it, cut, snip, tie, whatever it takes.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Team Southards is adding a new player!



Yes we are expecting! Payton is going to be a BIG SISTER!

Yesterday we went to the Dr for our initial visit and ultrasound. We didn't have an early ultrasound with Payton, so it was so cool to see that little being inside of me with the heart pumping away! I thought I was about 10 weeks, but according to the ultrasound, looks like I am 8.5 weeks, which puts my due date Christmas Eve!!!!! I know due dates are relative as Payton had no regard for hers, but I thought we were lucky to miss having a Christmas baby with Payton. I have learned that I am fertile, and if we don't want to be pregnant, take precautions! We got pregnant the first month I stopped breastfeeding and we weren't trying. Next baby will have better timing. Trust the Lord had this baby planned out perfectly for His plan though :)

I have been very very sick the last 3 weeks with nausea and fatigue. I did not have it nearly this bad with Payton. There have been days that I can barely pull myself off the couch. The house is a mess, dishes pile up, dinners are not cooked. Steve has felt the effects of my sickness too. We know this will pass, I am going to start taking some medicine this week for the nausea. We are very excited, but I will probably experience more joy once the sickness passes. I would ask for your prayers, as I am not myself and this has been hard on all of Team Southards. I really wanted 4 kids, but after this pregnancy I am not sure if I can do this 2 more times. For some reason I am really stuck on having more than 2, so I might do this one more time around for 3 kiddos. I know the gift at the end is well worth it, and this too shall pass. (Trying to stay positive).

Farm

Here are some pics from our farm trip. Not feeling well today, no commentary, just pics. Enjoy!

(FYI, Payton does smile all the time, it wouldn't appear so in these pictures those)

















Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Not so green thumb

Spring is in full bloom here in Kansas. That means it is time for flowers and gardens. Now this Florida girl was not raised planting anything. I don't recall people in Florida growing vegetable gardens. I am sure there are people who do, but I do not recall anyone in my world as I knew it having gardens. Since I have a mother-in-law who has gardens that belong in Better Homes & Gardens and Steve's extended family (grandparents, aunts, etc) have amazing gardens, I decided to give this whole thing a try. Last year I had it pretty easy. My in-laws were visiting at Mother's Day (which I have learned is about a good time to plant by) and they put in my whole garden for me. My mother-in-law also brought me all my hanging plants and did all my other planters. All I did last year was water often and maintain what was started. I was good at that.

This year, I was on my own. So Payton and I went to the Flower Farm about 20 minutes south of us, out in the country (thanks to Lyndsey for the recommendation) and we bought flowers and vegetable plants. I had no idea what I was doing. If I was educated, I probably would have enjoyed it a little more. I was reading every flower to see if it would be a fit for my needs. It was such a beautiful place though. Here are some pictures of our time there.





Here are the goodies I came home with:



Here is the snap peas and lettuce that Steve planted before we went to Florida. I am better at maintaining then starting for gardens at least. In other areas of my life I have always been a starter and I want someone else to maintain, I guess gardening is different, Steve felt like he was twisting my leg to get those seeds in ground. Also I was pleasantly surprised at my herbs that came back from last year (left side of picture). My cilantro completely died off last year, and it is growing again. The other two (can't exactly remember what they are) are big and strong even after all winter!



Payton has loved being outside. While I worked on my garden and flower pots, she cleaned off the little pots the flowers came in with the water running out of the hose.




She was a mess when it was all done, but loved it.



Well here are the hanging pots. I was a little disappointed, I know they have to grow in, but I wasn't feeling well, my body hurt and I felt like I spend $50 and had nothing to show for it.



My front porch pots will fill in and flower, but I am guilty of wanting instant results. I had pictures of my tomatos and peppers, but they aren't loaded and I am down at Steve's grandparents farm, so those will have to come later. I am excited about harvesting my produce, last year, it was soooooo much fun to walk out into my garden and pick a fresh tomato for an amazing BLT sandwich!



I stripped Payton clothes off her before we came in and as soon as I turned my back she stripped off the diaper. We have entered the phase where taking off the diaper is fun.



She was close to bath time so I didn't want to get a new outfit dirty, so we found cute bloomers to keep her cute little hands off the diaper. Plan worked!



Showing that Payton must have good tanning skin. We had gone for a walk for less then an hour and she came home with tan lines from her new sandals. The color makes her look red, but it wasn't at all, she was tan. She is starting to get little tan lines, maybe like my mother-in-law who is not only a great gardner, but tans better than anyone I know, Payton will have good skin! Both the Wiens and Southards tan well! My first words I ever said to my husband where "How are you so tan?"



Just a fun close up of her crazy hair!!!

Not so small, small group

Monday we finished up our small group for the semester. At ICCC we are on a semester system, where we follow the school year, that way they are planned breaks, which everyone enjoys and it allows for people to try different groups and not be tied down to one for eternity. Our group is a mix of young adults (married, single, engaged, with kids, without kids). We love our group. Here are some pictures from Monday where we celebrated Cinco De Mayo a few days early. Every week we enjoy a meal together (everyone brings a dish around a planned theme for the evening) and then have our study time. We usually split guys and girls for discussion as our small group as over 30 people signed up. Not everyone makes it every week, so we often don't have over 30, but it does get nice and cozy.






Mexican was probably one of our best nights of food, amazing home made food!





The guys somehow seem to always find themselves outside, especially on the beautiful Spring evenings!

We love our group and are thankful for the great relationships we have formed and for the people to walk our journey with, growing and learning about how God is alive and active in our everyday lives. If your church as community groups and you are not involved, you are missing out!

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Pigtails, Cheese & SunButter

Big day for Payton, the crazy hair has been somewhat tamed :) In Florida her hair is sooo curly because of the humidity. When we are in Kansas, it is just crazy. I have had straight hair my whole life, so I do not know what do with this mess. So today, we tried pigtails, and they worked! She looks so much older, Steve said he didn't like them just for the fact that she did look so much older.



They are so cute in person!



Yesterday while grocery shopping I handed Payton a block of cheese to hold to keep her busy. We were almost done shopping and I saw her biting on the block and I figured it felt good because she is teething and it is cold. As I approached the check out I noticed that Payton had chewed through the wrapper and was having a yummy snack of cheese. I had to pry it out of her hands for the cashier to scan it, then she went back to eating it while I bagged the groceries. Everyone who walked by stopped and had a laugh. It was pretty funny. She was a happy girl and wasn't sure what the big deal was.



Close-up of the evidence



Payton has had a minor rash the 2 times we have tried peanut butter before. Ironically the rash was on her arm, but I don't want to mess with peanut allergies. So I found Sunbutter made out of sunflower seeds. She had her first sandwich today and seemed to enjoy it. Being that it is $6 a jar, she is the only one that will eat it, we can stick to cheaper peanut butter.

Monday, April 26, 2010

Florida Trip

We made it back from Florida. Payton and I flew in Tuesday evening. It was a long flight, as Payton and I were in a middle seat with a grown man on either side. They were gracious men, but it was a challenge keeping an active 15 month old still and quiet for 3 hours in a very small space.

Our trip was wonderful as always. We spent the first weekend in Bradenton cleaning up our rental home. The next week was spent at the Exponential Conference in Orlando. It was a great time for personal challenge and challenge for what God has called the Church to be. I really enjoyed attending the conference with Steve. Mom and great grandma loved their time with Payton. She is so fun right now. Here are a few pictures from the trip.



It isn't the expensive toys that keep their interest the most.



Wagon ride with Mimi.



The classic Payton and boo pose. Thumb in the mouth, and ear in the hand.



Trying to get a picture of the cousins. 3 kids under 3 all looking in the same direction is a win!



I was trying to encourage the CHEESE!



Our last day Payton and Jodie were holding hands in the car as we ran errands. I am so thankful they to get to see each other often enough.

Looking forward to the Wiens family beach trip in June.