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Friday, September 9, 2011

Yellow tags

A few of my favorite places to shop are TJ Maxx and Marshalls. I have been known to get great deals. One of my favorite times of my shopping year is when my fav stores have yellow tags on their clearance. If you shop these stores, you know what I am talking about. Items that have been on clearance so long, marked down so many times, that they are extremely discounted, just to move them out of the store. I had considered blogging last week about my great finds while in St. Louis, like this one

Over 90% off is a pretty good price for those Michael Kors black shorts. Then I went shopping this weekend on the way home from the farms and got some of the cheapest clothes ever. I mean we are talking about cheaper than goodwill, cheaper then garage sales. Brand new clothes that they almost paid me to walk away with. 


 These were nice brands; Max Studio, Buffalo Jeans,  Ralph Lauren, Nine West and more. I calculated the Retail price according the original tags (which I am not sure if anyone actually pays, at least not any of my friends). The retail price for my items was over $440 and I spent $12!!!!!!!!!! People that is a deal. 

Max Studio Dress (retail $98) = $3
Ralph Lauren blouse (retail $89) = $3
Will Smith Khaki shorts (retail $32) = $2
Grey Top (retail $39) = $2
Buffalo Jeans (retail $89) = $1
Nine West wedges (retail $79) = $1

A few of the items really weren't my style or colors that I usually go for, but for that price I will get my money's worth. The grey top below and the orange wedges (not my color) are not my typical, but I might be pleasently surprised for the variety. At $1, that is cheaper than a soda at Sonic happy hour and will last much longer.  

No I am not wearing those shoes with my outfit, just for the picture



Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Farms

We were so thankful to spend a long weekend at the farms this past weekend. Our weekends are often shortened with Steve's unique schedule of working on Sunday. We went down to celebrate Papa Southards' 85th birthday. We were able to spend time with both sets of Steve's grandparents at their farms. Payton is at the age where she is really enjoying the freedom of the wide open space and the animals.



Miss Serious

Feeding Cricket - Payton kept calling her a baby goat because she hasn't seen a cow so small

Not too sure about it

She loved the horses but didn't want to ride them, safe behind the fence

It was so sweet, Granny Coats wanted to read to Payton and she sat and listened for a long time.


Her only request of the weekend was to drive the tractor with her daddy

4 generations of Southards men

Aunt Brenda with Buster

Perfect morning to sit on the porch enjoying a cup of coffee. The farms are so peaceful

There was a lot more family in town, I didn't get pictures of everyone. Payton loved playing with her cousin Eden. She has been talking about her non-stop since she got home. We are so thankful that even though we don't live in the same town as family, they are within driving distance.

Hope you all had a great Labor Day weekend!

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Different strokes for different folks

This is one of those post about my journey, what I have been learning. No cute pictures of the kiddos, just a little of my heart out there for whomever to read, but more importantly, for me to remember when I need the kick in the pants.

God has had me on a journey, humbling me. Oh the fun times of God spanking your behind, teaching you a lesson. The older I get (at the ripe age of 29) I have come to welcome these learning situations a little more, because I often know something better is on the other side.

I am passionate about parenting. About parenting styles, techniques, theories, etc. I believe a lot of it comes from my amazing mother, whom herself is passionate about this topic and throughout the years has always educated herself in this area. I love reading books, blogs, talking to other "like-minded" moms. The problem for me has come when I believe my way is the RIGHT way. The last few months, God has gently reminded me, that I am not the know-all of parenting. Hello I only have 2 little kids, I haven't even touched the surface of this parenting thing. I have been guilty of judging others on their style.  Now I have learned a little in the 2.5 years of being a parent. Before kids I looked at mom's in stores with kids have fits and thought "my kid will not do that!" As all moms know, your kid will do about everything you swore they wouldn't do. 

What works for me might not work for others.  I recently read a blog post that did a great job putting into words what I have been learning.  You can check out the whole post HERE, but let me share a little excerpt with you (this pertains to Christian mom's specifically, but can be used for all moms).

If principles are the content of what is being said, methods are the languages used. We agree that a good principle is “love your children.”  So we each say it to them in our own language. Some of us might say it in schedule feeding, and some of us might say it with a sling. The problem comes in when someone overhears someone else “talking” to their children. Quickly translating into her own language, she overhears something like, “I do not love you, and you are a fink!” Outrage ensues.
 
We want to hear people speaking in our own languages. We have labored over all our translation manuals, worked to have just the right accent, and so it grates on us to hear someone come say the same thing in pig latin. We often refuse to admit that it is the same thing – it just can’t be.

Now the point of this is certainly not to say that there are not objectively better ways to communicate to our children. Some people may be speaking in pig latin, some in a random smorgasbord of cliche sayings, and some only speak to their children in Italian sonnets. Some methods are better. Some methods are dumber. My point is not that we shouldn’t have an opinion about methods, but that we should be comfortable with different languages. When people speak in different languages, it ought to give us joy. The world is a crazy place. The church is a crazy place.

So, next time someone says the clearly outrageous, just remember this: there is a wrong way to be right. There is also a right way to be wrong. And there is always a greater right than being right.

Moms need to support one another, especially if you call yourself a Christ follower, we are here to encourage and love others, not judge or look down on, even if you don't understand their "language" we are still called to love one another.

Sunday, August 28, 2011

St. Louis trip

This weekend we headed to St. Louis for a quick trip to see Steve's little brother Ben play his opening football game of his senior year.  It was also our first trip in the new van :) It was quite a comfortable ride. Our weekend trips often are Thursday evening - Saturday evening. Being married to a pastor, our weeks look a little different than the typical.

Friday before the game, Gigi took us to Grant's Farm.

Sister wasn't too sure about the goats

Getting a little more comfortable



Then the goat decided to eat her hair and tick her off :)

The boys watching the goat feeding


She picked the bunny


Buster had to settle for watching sister from the stroller

Buster was sitting tall for the picture while sister tried to escape

Gigi and Buster

Not too sure about feeding the camel

I don't blame her, check out the sign

Getting a little daddy lovin



Sister helping papa collect tomatoes
 Unfortunately Ben's team lost the game by one touchdown, it came down to the last play of the game.  He led the team in tackles though. You would think Uncle Benny was Payton's hero. She has talked about him ever since the game. Talking about him falling to the ground tickling people (while she makes a tickle motion with her fingers, we haven't explained tackling to her). She also couldn't stop talking about Benny waving her to after the game.  We watched him a year ago and ever since that game, whenever we pass a football field driving, or have a game on TV, she thinks it is Benny playing. Needless to say, he is a little 2.5 year old that is his biggest fan!


Saturday, August 27, 2011

Colton's Thyroid Update


I love this little stinker, his messy nose and all 4 teeth!

We got another call yesterday, updating us on his latest test results.

All tests came back NORMAL!!!!!!!!!!

This was not what I had prepared myself for. Some might say that the lab was in error, that could be true, but I also believe that my God has the power to heal and he just might have laid his hand on Buster.  We are so grateful! Thank you so much to all of you for your prayers, so many of you reached out to us and it was so touching. We serve a BIG God, even if the results were different, God is still in control, but we are so thankful for the outcome. The doctor does want us to come back in 3 months for more blood work, just to make sure everything has stayed normal.


Yes, this little booger face is healthy has healthy comes. Thank you Lord for your watchful hand over our family!

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Thankful for medicine - Colton's Thyroid issue

We got a call yesterday, one of those calls that makes your stomach drop.

This little stinker, he should be in ad for Crocs

Let me back up with the story. (This is more for my recollection when in a few years I can't remember how this all went down). A few weeks ago Colton started doing this weird move where he would drop his chin to his chest and roll his eyes upwards. I didn't like how it looked, unsure if there was something wrong, or if he was a baby learning a new move. We had dinner with our friends the Zimmers, and Candice (a physical therapist who works with kiddos under 3 years old) saw him do a "mini" version of it and said she didn't want to scare me, but those could be seizures.

Stomach dropped in that moment. She said many babies grow out of them on their own, but if he continues, to have the doc check him out. I didn't see him do it again for a few days. Early last week, I saw him do it for the first time since she had mentioned seizures. Which when she mentioned it, it totally made sense to me, they lasted a few seconds, but resembled a small seizure. So as we sat at breakfast and he did it again my stomach dropped.

Now I am the mom that is guilty of not going to the doctor for things. Most times when the kids are sick, I figure let the body do it's thing and whatever it is can run it's course. Not this time around. We went to the doctor that morning (1 week ago). 

Our doctor (who I absolutely love) didn't seem that concerned and said if it is seizures, most babies do outgrow them without any long-term negative effects. He did suggest I try a loud, sudden movement right in front of his face to see if I can snap him out of the action (staring off is also another mild form of seizure and he had done that as well, I just assumed that was a baby thing). He did take some blood to check a few levels, but didn't seem too concerned about the seizures. 

I was so thankful for that reassurance. The next day he had a couple "episodes" and thankfully he snapped out of them when I did a quick action with a loud noise in front of him.  Poor sister got really upset when I did this, she thought I was yelling at him and she started to cry telling me not to yell at her baby brother. Somehow I do tend to stay very calm with the kids (even in their rough moments) that my actions startled her. She sure loves her brother.
I hadn't heard anything from the doctor's office last week, so I assumed everything in his blood was fine.  Then yesterday the call came, my stomach dropped before I even answered it.

The nurse told me that Dr. Rahto wanted us to come in as soon as possible, that Colton's thyroid numbers were high.  She said it wasn't life threatening (which in actuality scared me more because my mind didn't even go there, I was much lower in my concern until she brought that to mind). We made an appointment for this morning. I hadn't heard of thyroid problems in babies, I had heard about them in women, often during or after pregnancy. I started googling thyroid problems in babies, then Steve suggested I wait and let the doctor share with me the situation and not get worked up over things I am not even sure of. Great advice husband.
Steve and I have been in prayer, shared our situation with family and people we know who are prayer warriors. I had such a peace going into our appointment, knowing that God created Colton's body and he cares about him even more than I do. My God who created the heaven's and the earth is in complete control. I do believe that with all my heart.

After Steve and Dr. Rahto shared their hunting stories and exchanged pictures of deer, we got down to business. Colton's numbers were high, meaning he has a Hypothyroid. Colton got more blood drawn today for some more testing. First the doctor wants to make sure the initial results are accurate, if so, tests will be done to check a number of levels to see what the cause of the results are. Regardless of the reason, if he has hypothyroid he will be treated the same.

Here is the good news/bad news. Good news, this is treatable. Bad news, he will be on medication the rest of his life. That though to me is wonderful news considering the alternative. Doc said that before the medicine was created, babies/kids with this situation had extremely stunted growth (very short) and often were mentally handicapped. With the medication, Colton will live a completely normal life besides the fact that he will take medication every day and will visit the doctor annually to check things. 

That is wonderful news to me. Now I don't want to get ahead, because we do need to wait for the results, but I am assuming that the initial results were accurate, and this will be our new normal moving forward. If the results were wrong, then great, no need for a specialist or medication.

I believe God was watching over us with the "false seizures." If we had not gone in for that, we might not have found this out for years, when more damage would have been done. I asked how kids are diagnosed if they don't happen to have blood work done like Colton did. Doc said that it is often later, teenage years, when the problems show themselves (lack of growth and mental retardation) is when the issue is diagnosed. Praise the Lord we have found this early. I am not upset about this situation, yes it is less than ideal, but I am just so grateful, that if is a serious issue, we have caught it before there are any problems, and my son can live a normal life!

So that is what we have going on right now. I look forward to hearing the results (I assume we will get them early next week) so we know how to move forward. We often take health for granted, I am so thankful for my God who watches over us, and the medical community who God has gifted to take care of his children. 


I am a blessed woman!

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Let's talk about Sex Baby, let's talk about you and me...


Thank you Salt N Pepper for opening up our topic today. Ironically this song was released on my 9th birthday (thanks Wikipedia for that info). I know when it came out it wasn't the type of song I was allowed to listen to (appropriately so).

I do believe that more married couples should heed the advice though, TALK ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR SPOUSE!!!!

I have recently been reading Christian blogs and articles on SEX (I just like putting that in all caps, makes a few people wiggle in their seats).  I do apologize to the all my grandparents that read this blog, I know this might be a little uncomfortable topic, but since the world we live in screams unhealthy advice our way, I thought we would talk about the Godly perspective.

I have stumbled upon a few good blogs and resources that I want to pass along to you. By no means do I have great wisdom in this area, but I am a wife who wants to have a sex life with her husband that puts a smile on God's face. God created us, he created our bodies, he knows how they are meant to work together, I believe he delights in a husband and wife, intimately knowing each other. 

Someone once told me that the devil does everything he can to get us in bed before we are married and does everything he can to keep us out of bed once we are married. He knows the deep bond that is created having sex, and he does whatever he can to corrupt what God meant for good, just look around us, negative sexual influences are everywhere. 

I am calling my married Christan friends to reclaim SEX, God's way, in your marriage. God wants you to have passionate, heart-bonding, heart-pounding :) SEX.

ONLINE RESOURCES

The Proverbs 31 woman liked being on top

5 Reasons I like Sex: Confessions of a Christian woman

Sexual Confidence

Body Image War

What husbands are saying about their sex lives

Other Blogs I am still exploring